The Love Cock as a Path of Intimacy & Enlightenment
SNEAK PEAK INTO ASTTARTE'S BOOK:
THE HEART ON, OPENING THE HEART OF YOUR BELOVED,
THROUGH TANTRA, THE BREATH, THE ART OF LISTENING, SUBMISSION & DOMINANCE IN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS,
A GUIDE FOR COUPLES & TANTRA HEALERS
"The Love Cock practice can at first seem like a tedious, difficult, and annoying practice, but over time with this practice, it can lead to full self-transformation, evolution as a human and with dedication over a long period of time, enlightenment.
There are many teachers who have become masters, with their committed and devoted practice of tantra as the path they took to enlightenment. A couple famous ones are Babaji and Osho. Mantak Chia is also a practitioner of Taoist Tantric arts and became proficient and enlightened in his process, however, he is still living. Working with the energy to retain one’s sexual energy and pull it inside their bodies can eventually lead to transformation of the energy centers.
The love cock is a practice that can lead to intimacy and enlightenment because all the blocked energy inside the male body has a chance to be released, with the heightened energy of arousal, and the peaceful energy of love, containment and acceptance, everything has a chance to let go. This is a practice not for the faint of heart. It’s not an easy practice, but well worth it.
In order to sustain this practice, as a man, he must be very self-aware, conscious of his energy patterns, and his sexual energy. He must be willing to work with his own sexual energy as a tool for transformation. Only the individual has the capacity to transform himself, and how he feels inwardly when he’s alone and with others can be the direct link to his evolution. However, it’s what he does in reaction to his own energy that allows for him to expand his energy centers, his breath, his kundalini, and how he responds to his heightened sexual energy when he’s around his Beloved or loved ones.
When his energy is expansive, in a heightened state of arousal is the moment he can use his energy for transformation of himself, each and every time he feels his own arousal. The expanded state of pleasure is the energy that can help him to attain an experience of full body bliss, pleasure, and orgasm when he pulls in his own energy and works with it in combination with his own pleasure. The parallel of working with two forces is where the power lies; his own pleasure, charged energy of arousal, and his own breath while squeezing in his sexual intimate muscles (anus and lingham or shaft and scrotum) at the same time, called the Kegels. The breath combined with his arousal ignites his kundalini force and allows for whatever energy and emotion trapped in his body vehicle to be released out of his energy field. There are multiple steps to this practice, and as he retains his seed, and uses his seed to grow his own kundalini, the flower inside of him grows.
I am my Beloveds lover, and as I write this, I share in my experience of witnessing him go through a full body transformation of himself. Men have the ability to transform themselves just as much as women do, however, men’s struggle is learning how to work with their seed, and working with their own sexual frustrations, anger, need and other emotions that arousal is showing them. Even Enlightened gurus get arousal sometimes, but they know how to work with and channel their energy to use it for healing and good. Just because someone has achieved enlightenment doesn’t mean they no longer experience arousal, but their energy is stronger, more powerful, and they become more aware of the energy they are projecting and know how to use their energy to protect themselves, and use their energy for enlightenment rather than pleasure seeking. Many times, enlightened beings’ sexual energy is integrated within their own energy system, so they can then use their whole self to support their loved one or their clients in the assisting of helping them to transform.
Often, where there is a lot of high sexual energy with a person, this is a reflection of how much trauma is trapped in their own bodies. Many times, after sexual trauma, the individual feels more sexual energy than they ever have within their own bodies. This has to do with the imbalanced chakra that had been damaged, overpowered, or violated in some way. Some people will either feel overly sexual from this, or less sexual. This would be a case of needing to heal from sexual trauma, and the love cock, being the partner of someone with this situation, could help assist his partner in their healing. {My book: Awaken to Living; Tantra for Your Whole Life talks more in depth about the chakras}.
Many times, when someone feels a sexual arousal...."
Read more in the book, The Heart On, Opening the Heart of Your Beloved. You can get an eBook Digital copy on Amazon as well, or a hardback copy if you desire. I'll be writing more on The Love Cock. I just wanted to let you know. Ladies, it's our job to teach the men and hold space for them. Men, your path is to awaken to become the fully expressed Shiva, Divine Masculine who you are capable of being. Then all couples can heal each other. All Couples can grow, and have the relationship of their dreams!