Sexual Addiction Recovery & Energetic Healing with a Trauma-Informed Tantrica

Sexual Addiction Recovery & Energetic Healing with a Trauma-Informed Tantrica

Sacred Sexual Healing for Wounded Hearts and Wild Energies

After 8 years since I started my own journey of recovery, and 3 years since the passing of my Beloved Paul, I've discovered there are so many people like my beloved and myself who had unresolved sexual issues they need to heal from.

From the collection of all of my seekers, to the locals looking for love, and the other Dakini Sex Goddesses I know of personally, so many people are dealing with sexual imbalances and looking for love through sex. In order to have true love for oneself and with another, healing the source of the sexual imbalances will bring you home to yourself. Most people do not want to confront the source of their sexual cravings, imbalances, passions and desires. They see sex as a gift and that it should be used for pleasure always and not to be questioned as anything other than innocent.

However, some people desire sex and sexual connections out of an imbalance in themselves. They may have unprocessed childhood trauma, have been raped (once or numerous times), have had uncomfortable either physical sexual incest or energetic emotional sexual incest with one or both of their parents. They could also have had inappropriate affairs as a child or teen that left them feeling like a sex object and didnt honor and nurture their childhood innocense, which is also a sexual trauma, disguised as pleasure and something good. They may have had strange feelings with siblings or childhood friends or experiences they left in the past. Some people experienced polyamory very young and too young to have developed their sense of identity and self to know the difference.

Some people act out today in a multitude of ways:

Unable to love their partner deeper, avoidance of eye contact and emotional depth, and escape to another lover to achieve a connection

They may use porn obsessively or even on occasion but feel tremendous guilt, or feel as though this is the only way they can be turned on by their partner

They fantasize about other lovers and can't stop talkinng about them to their current partner

They go to prostitutes

They go to strip clubs, and perhaps its the only place they feel safe and turned on

They have many secret lovers

They start emotional affairs with people outside their marriage, that often leads to falling in love with someone else and leaving their husband or wife in the dark

They're on a bunch of dating sites looking for new lovers

They plan to go to a bunch of kink, bdsm and sex clubs by themselves.

They're favorite store is the local porn supply store

They're favorite website is a sex site.

They seek out a Dominatrix or Master

They have another family with another partner

They join swingers clubs alone or with their partner and often make plans on their own

They study tantra not for love but for sex. They become tantra practitioners themselves, but really they're just looking for love and their hearts need healing.

The list goes on.

Some folks that show up in Session have energies that are very out of balance. Their energy can show up in a multitude of ways. Here are some examples:

They have trouble sitting on the couch upon initial meeting. They want to get on the mat right away and have a massage.

They are impatient and don't want to do energy healing or talk about their feelings.

When we do Breathwork, their energy is so wild and out of control they feel like they could jump out of their body. Their sexual energy is off the charts and they can't sit still. They appear to be almost like bouncing rabbits or horny puppy dogs. They need to grab me, have their hand on my body somewhere, and have trouble breathing and relaxing. And they don't know what to do with this energy or how to control it.

They want to get naked right away and can't wait for their bodies to be touched in their intimate parts. They get frustrated waiting. Sometimes they get very angry when they don't get what they want.

They try to develop an emotional relationship with me. They profess their deep love for me, their devotion and aren't looking at themselves, doing the Coaching I give them, and are determined to be my partner in some way.

They also could be repressed and have no sexual energy what-so-ever and get frustrated when I can't fix their sexual repression right away and decide to find someone else to help them that will just give them a release.

They are repressed, have no libido, and just want an energy healing or massage session. They are respectful but arent willing to take the Coaching to do emotional processing with me or do their homework of emotional processing work at home. They make very little progress or none at all and are stuck feeling depressed and not knowing why.

They want a Bufo Session or Plant Medicine Session and receive it, and gain some progress, but then don't do the follow up of integration and emotional healing therapy to work through what it brought up to the surface and the emotions get trapped inside again repeating the cycle.

They profess to be married and working out their relationship with their partner, but show up alone, and don't want to tell their partner they're coming to see me.

Sexual Addiction Recovery work and Tantra Sessions can be utilized by the Healing Modalities I developed. Workshops are being offered this summer and a new course is coming out soon for this. In the meantime, I am offering private sessions.

If any of this sounds like you and that this would make a difference for you, please contact me via calendly.com/asttarte or the contact page on this site. You can also send a text to 215-326-9641.

Blessings and Namaste!

Asttarte Deva Healing Wellness Center and staff.

Sexual Addiction Recovery & Energetic Healing with a Trauma-Informed Tantrica